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We choose the best man we believe we are worthy of. But if we keep that story in our heads…then we are simply avoiding facing the fake stories we tell ourselves and other possible realities.
Realities such as: Because we spend so much energy directing ourselves in our career and life, in other words – using this masculine energy in ourselves….a man can’t be attracted to us because we’ve already put out so much masculine energy in the world. But when we go in to the dating world assuming that our worth comes from this; well, we don’t get to complain that men aren’t attracted to us and that there are no good men.
Nobody loves you for being successful, for being intimidating, or for being more ‘powerful’ in society than other people are. My vibe was that was that of a hard woman, wearing masks to cover up her attractive natural energy. Much less approach me and want a relationship with me?
That’s the silly illusion that we’ve all fallen for at certain times in our lives. The good news is, men are always responding to WOMEN. Which means, how you show up in the dating market is crucial. It’s the way I said it, and the way I go about meeting my needs every day of my life. Back then, I thought my worth was in my achievements.
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“) or the other fake story we often tell ourselves; that…we prefer living with the internal story in our minds of ‘they’re intimidated by me’ than feeling with our deep, inner yearning in our heart and body for a fully directed man to enter our life. When we women say; ‘men don’t court me because they’re intimidated by me’…Men actually just weren’t attracted to us. There’s a lot of pain and humiliation surrounding not finding a man for most women in this world. Maybe in the corporate world where they’re not thinking about dating you.
Attraction is the thing that lights up his life and lights up yours.
They’re not necessarily showing up as open, loving women, they’re women who are feeling disillusioned but too scared to feel their fears; because facing our fears is more painful and harder than ignoring them.
It was that there was no room to be in a relationship with me.
They had no perceived positive rewards for their efforts to court me, because I put out a tonne of masculine energy.
It doesn’t mean we AREN’T attractive; it just means that we didn’t show up that way in the eyes of men. ’ why not be more approachable then, if we really value relationship and connection and opening to a man? We just try to cover it up with stupid stories like: No. But we have to survive somehow; and to SURVIVE, we have to tell ourselves an internal story that makes us feel good enough that we can walk out the door in the morning and actually live our lives. Even if they are intimidated by you, that usually only counts for a small percentage of the reason why they are not wanting a relationship with you. How is men being intimidated by you even relevant to your love life?
I hear women saying to me; ‘but, men are intimidated by beautiful women!! You can always wear a sloppy item of clothing and dull your attractiveness on the outside – but that wouldn’t change your inner radiance and would make you actually more approachable. What matters is whether men are attracted to you or not for a relationship.